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How to tell the difference between lust and love

Figure out if it's the real deal, or just mad sexual chemistry.

If you're dating someone but can't figure out whether you're actually compatible, or whether there's just butt loads of sexual chemistry, it can be bloody confusing.

Relationship expert Sarah Louise Ryan explains there are six very obvious signs that it's lust and not love. Here's how to tell if you've got the real deal or not, and save yourself a whole world of wasted time.

You want to know everything and all at once

If the person you're seeing is really meant to be your next significant other - then what’s the rush? After all, good things come to those who wait. If it’s lust, you’ll try to be all in - and fast - because you won’t be able to wait to get your next fix of those neurotransmitters dopamine and serotonin (they're what make you feel really good).

If it’s love, then you’ll be far more interested in a slow-burning....

Read full article in Cosmopolitan.



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