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From Casual To Committed - Using The Power Of Polarisation

Recently I had the pleasure of meeting Lyn Smith, an International Relationship Coach who spends her time educating singles and couples in the art of effective communication. Lyn, who describes herself as the Queen of Hearts, has a very powerful message, a very emotive story of her own and a mission to help us understand the difference between both masculine and feminine energy in order to make a love last. Here Lyn tells us how you can go from casual to committed using the power of polarisation.

By Lyn Smith, International Relationship Coach

I believe you can defy the odds, overcome adversity and achieve massive relationship success by using the power of polarisation.

Since the human race began we have all possessed masculine and feminine energy and regardless of your gender (whether you are in a female or male body) we all have a natural, more dominant energy which is our gender identity, what you are, at your authentic core.

For you to have friendships you need to have things in common with other humans; similarities create ‘connection’ and most people are prepared to settle for this in their intimate relationships, usually because we perceive it’s socially acceptable to be the same or because of fears attached to our past negative experiences in our previous interactions / relationships with men.

But for there to be real ‘passion’ & fulfilment in your intimate relationship you need complimentary differences; these being the sexual polarisation of the positive masculine and feminine energies present; the more extreme on the masculine and feminine ends of the scale you are, the more passion & intimacy you will experience in your personal relationship. Everyone unconsciously knows this to be true regardless of their sexual orientation.

So how did most of us end up just settling for connection in our choice of man? Or maybe you started off in your relationship with passion present but somehow it’s different now, you don’t know what happened, you’ve just accepted that the honeymoon period is over and that’s just the way relationships are meant to be right?

Wrong! I’m here to tell you that you can have a life time of passion, commitment and intimacy in your relationship with your man.

So How Did You Lose The Passion?