When it comes to getting over a breakup, finding love or trying to conquer the world of dating many of us turn to inspiration from the experts but the opinions, reading options and research out there can be overwhelming. You don't always need self-help guides so I have broken it down to a few key readables to help you along the way to finding the love you deserve in a positive, constructive way. Some of them offering actionable approaches to help you along the way...
#1 The Secret. I am a huge advocate for the law of attraction- I believe you receive and attract exactly what you are putting out in the world, it's all relatively in our control so give this a read and see what it can do for your love life and overall happiness. The Secret reveals the mystery of the hidden potential within us all. By unifying leading-edge scientific thought with ancient wisdom and spirituality, the riveting, practical knowledge will lead readers to a greater understanding of how they can be the masters of their own lives.
#2 The Five Love Languages. This Really is the secret to a love that lasts and when you read it, it just all makes sense. Why would we all give and receive love in the same way? If we were all the same the world would be a really boring place right. By learning the five love languages, you and your spouse will discover your unique love languages and learn practical steps in truly loving each other. Chapters are categorized by love language for easy reference, and each one ends with specific, simple steps to express a specific language to your spouse and guide your marriage in the right direction. A newly designed love languages assessment will help you understand and strengthen your relationship. You can build a lasting, loving marriage together.
#3 The Slight Edge. This is perhaps my bible. What if we did a little bit of something today and for the rest of our days towards what we truly want? There is no reason it would not happen. 95% of us fail because we are too impatient and want everything yesterday. A little bit of what you want everyday is easy to do and compounded over time will give you what you want in heaps and bounds. Obviously. The Slight Edge is a way of thinking, a way of processing information that enables you to make the daily choices that will lead you to the success and happiness you desire. Learn why some people make dream after dream come true, while others just continue dreaming and spend their lives building dreams for someone else. It’s not just another self-help motivation tool of methods you must learn in order to travel the path to success. It shows you how to create powerful results from the simple daily activities of your life, by using tools that are already within you.
#4 The Brain In Love 12 lessons to enhance your love life. A revolution to your love life. Everyone wants to know how to improve his or her love life, but so few of us understand the integral role the brain plays in attraction, keeping us excited about our partner, and helping us feel a strong connection. Based on Dr. Daniel Amen’s cutting-edge neuroscience research, The Brain in Love shares twelve lessons that help you enhance your love life through understanding and improving brain function. Filled with practical suggestions and information on how to have lasting and more fulfilling relationships.
#5 The 30 Day Love Detox. Dr Wendy Walsh is the guru of love as far as I am concerned. She speaks openly, honestly and constructively with strategy for your love life. In The 30-Day Love Detox, Walsh offers a step-by-step, five-part attachment strategy, with a 30-day detox that helps weed out the bad boys and set women up to meet the right guy, including: how to spot a cheater (and train him out of it); the biggest mistakes women make when dating online - and how to avoid them; how to cope with loneliness and say goodbye to ego sex (but not sex entirely); 10 tips on how to use technology to create intimacy and connect; how to keep sex hot once you're in a committed relationship. Melding scientific research, anthropological truths, and proven techniques, The 30-Day Love Detox is a revolutionary road map to finding lasting love in a modern world.